From Revenge To Frustration

Reach For A Thought That Feels Better

This is another post about the process of taking an Emotional Journey from feeling really poorly about a situation, to feeling okay or even hopeful about it, by systematically reaching for a better feeling place on the Emotional Scale.

It’s true that these days, Jerry and Esther Hicks’ material doesn’t really talk as much about the Emotional Journey, but back in 2004 and 2005′s material, there was a lot of talk about it, and I’ve been listening to those older workshop CDs for quite a few weeks now since it’s all good stuff anyway!!
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Vindictiveness and the Law of Attraction

Rawwrrr!

Coming into this Law of Attraction stuff, one thing I never expected was to be encouraged to revel in my thoughts of revenge and vindictiveness.

After all, my initial impression about Law of Attraction was that it was a positive thinking exercise where I’d be expected to just drop my negative thoughts and replace them with happy, cotton-candy, apple pie thoughts.

Vindictiveness and thoughts of revenge have always been things I’ve purposely tried to skip over, because like most of us in this world, I’ve seen people who seemed to have gotten stuck in that emotional state, and the damage they did to the relationships around them.

But as it turns out, Law of Attraction has actual strategies for handling negative emotions! Now that I’ve got new strategies, I’ve been able to start to overcome the anger/depression trap that a lot of people (including myself) seem to be socialized into.

I’m so incredibly greatful.
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How This Site Is Helping Me Practice Self-Soothing

When Thumbs Soothe ;)

Writer, Soothing Herself!

So, here I am, with my neat little blog set up all ready to talk about how the Law of Attraction has influenced my life, and when I approach the site thinking about posting an entry, I’m faced with…

ANXIETY!

In an attempt to “feel better feeling thoughts” I’ve found myself using escape mechanisms quite a bit, which aren’t actually dealing with the core issues that I’m griefing on myself about.

So, this is me dusting off a little, acknowledging that finding a more effective way of soothing my anxieties would get me closer to my goals more quickly, and telling you all about it.
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